Sagittarius Chronicles (Because Why Not) 

From my previous blog posts you’ve probably gathered that I’m a Sag. The number one thing that Sags are always striving for is understanding and to be understood. This particular post is about being understood because we are a highly misunderstood group of people. I cribbed this from another blog (http://12zodiacsign.blogspot.co.ke/2013/12/sagittarius-is-most-loneliest-sign-on.html?m=1) but it had horrible grammar and vocabulary so I edited it like the kind OCD person / grammar nazi I am. Without further ado:

Do you have Sagittarius friends? If you do, you would think that they are the happiest people in this world. You are not wrong but not completely right too.

Saying that Sagittarius is the most loneliest sign on this planet sounds impossible but it is true. You will never know how the Sagittarius feels deep inside. That doesn’t mean they are bad or a liar but they just don’t like showing their emotions because they hate being tied down and they don’t like to show their weakness. They are typically the strongest sign among another zodiac signs.

Sagittarius people are born with a clown face. It means that they always smile no matter what the circumstance is; they just can’t stop smiling and laughing. Sometimes they even laugh at their mistakes and the past story that they have been through. It is not weird if you see a Sagittarius person walking alone and smiling, they are thinking about their mistakes and cannot stop laughing how stupid they are.

Yes, they always smile, and laugh but they also have a hard time thinking over and over again about something that has been killing them and they will never tell anyone. They would just keep it to themselves and let the time fade this thing away. They have a special ability to kill all the bad memories in their mind without telling anyone.

We all know that Sagittarius are good conversationalists. They have a broad mind and they can talk about anything that you want talk about. Be it science, political, religion, culture, so on; they always impress you about their knowledge toward those subject because they are born explorers. They are very talkative but will always have a hard time expressing their feelings if you ask them to tell you exactly how they feel. That’s why they seem to be lonely most of the time because they don’t really share their feelings with people, even their family.

But they have one special partner to share how they feel and what do they think, and that partner is themselves. They always talk to themselves when they are alone. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean that they have a mental problem but they always reflect on the problem. They are sure that their problem has nothing to do with other people and they think that only they can solve it by themselves. Though they like to solve their own problems, you will also find that they like to help solve other people’s problems. They were basically born this way.

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The Sagittarius II (In Relationships)

As the title indicates, here is more on the ninth sign of the zodiac ruled by Jupiter.

Sapphic Sagittarius

You can fully expect your lesbian Sagittarius lover to be the life of any party, what with her infectious laughter, high level of energy, and fun-loving nature. While this could mean constant entertainment and a lively dating relationship for you, bear in mind that Sagittarians in general value their independence. So go easy on trying to rope her in a committed relationship after just a couple of dates. That could scare her off and make her disappear faster than a speeding bullet (or arrow, in her case).

She also loves travelling, so be prepared to be physically away from her every now and then. When this happens, it’s okay to call, email, or send her text messages…once in a while. It is NOT okay to bombard her with cutesy “I miss you” messages bordering on despair every time you feel the urge. She will not like that at all.

When in bed with her, you can look forward to your Sagittarius Sapphic sweetheart using philosophy as pillow talk, mixed with a bit of sexuality and romance. Hers is a highly evolved mind borne out of reading plenty of books and always wanting to explore new horizons. However, this doesn’t mean that she’s an absolute bore in bed. Remember that vast store of energy mentioned in the first paragraph? That can translate quite well on the bedroom front. Just remember that Sagittarius girls’ erogenous zones are located on their hips and thighs, be experimental and creative with foreplay, and you’re good to go (or come).

As for communicating with her, be prepared for moments when your Sagittarius can get blunt as a spoon. She’s pretty upfront about things, and is sometimes too-ready to give a piece of her mind when needed. Tact isn’t one of her best traits. So if you’re one to fish for compliments and beat around the bush, forget it. To a Sagittarian, you have to be deserving of a compliment to get one.

Lastly, if you’d rather sit at home and watch television, don’t expect that attractive Sagittarius lesbian to fall head over heels for you. They dislike being inactive. In fact, even when you’re relatively athletic-minded, you might find that you need to step up the game when you’re dating a Sagittarius. Always remember that theirs is one of the most physical signs in the Zodiac. If you move too slowly, lead a sedentary lifestyle, don’t have a gym membership, or only own shoes with thin stiletto heels, chances are you won’t rate too high on the Sagittarius date-o-meter.

Those being said, don’t feel too intimidated with these traits. While a lesbian Sagittarian may embody the lone huntress in accordance with her sign of The Archer, it’s still highly possible for her to fall hard for someone. She just puts a high premium on independence, and prizes it even on the women she dates. So keep those in mind once you set your sights on a particular Sagittarius lesbian. Be attractive, be interesting, be energetic, and be self-supporting, and she’ll have a hard time resisting you!

The Kinky Sagittarius

Sags doesn’t have any problem saying what they want since they believe things should always be laid down on the table to be analyzed. They are often seen as callous and sometimes even insensitive because when it’s sex they want from you, they’ll say it plainly and clearly. This sign doesn’t have a problem trying to tell lust from love so one night stands and fuck buddies are common for them. As a matter of fact, they prefer it that way. A Sag will mainly look for people who think the way they do. Someone who doesn’t have issues separating sex from emotional attachments. This way things are less complicated.

Now, Scorpio may be the ruled by the house that makes them the most sexual sign among all zodiacs but Sagittarius usually ends up having more fun. Why? Because they know how to get the most of everything and that includes activities inside the bedroom (or wherever they feel like doing “it”). It may seem like Sags lives don’t have much direction because they like having fun more than anything but they always know what they want in bed. Each sign has some sort of kink; a fetish that is their own and makes them distinct. So what does a Sagittarius have that sorts them out from the others?

Actually, nothing in specific … because they want it all! They are impulsive and like to push their limits making them try almost anything. They don’t like labeling themselves either cause that limits them to a specific class and Sags hate being boxed in. If a Sagittarius says, “I’m an ass person” they could be saying that to flatter you. Not that they don’t mean it. They may really be biased to women with fine asses but they won’t focus on that alone. Surely, a nice bottom will always look better if paired with an equally nice bosom. Today they may be obsessed with cuffs and latex but tomorrow they might want to use delicate laces and petals on satin sheets. Sags like to explore the unexplored and enrich what they already have. There are times they will have a fixation about something specific but unlike other signs who are consistent with their “preferences,” it will fade away. They value spontaneity and adventure so they are also inclined to be in open relationships or have some sort of agreement that gives them the type of lifestyle (that is to say, sexual activity) that suits them.

Many Sagittarius can also be classified as pansexual which means someone who does not go with the traditional sexual attractions. They can be attracted to both men and women and even gays and bisexuals.
If a spontaneous, adventurous and even impulsive lover is what you look for, you will be happy to meet a Sag counterpart but beware of letting things get cold after the long run. Even when the Archer is devoted to you, they may wander if they find their current situation boring so make sure you try to keep up with them.

What Happens When You Hurt A Sagittarius

Those under the Sagittarius sign are probably the easiest to get along with because they don’t like to pretend they’re somebody else to please the people around them. Yes they take pleasure at making people laugh (and who doesn’t) and sometimes they may go out of the way to accommodate friends but only if the favors doesn’t clash with their principles and, more importantly, their schedule.

First off, Sagittarius people are hard to piss off. They have a pretty good sense of humor which can be dry and sarcastic so they know how to handle a joke when it’s thrown at them. They can also be callous without intending to be and as intelligent as they are, they can be dense when it comes to other people’s feelings so you need to spell it out for them. A Sag is usually seen as a very happy-go-lucky and come-what-may person but they also know how to get serious in life. They just don’t like getting stressed all the time. All that said, it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to get angry or sad. It just takes a lot for them to get hurt because they’re not very sensitive like the water signs for example. They like to live life and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

Now, you know what they say about what could happen when the other shoe drops? It’s not that true with most Sags. They are mutable signs and learn how to adapt easily. They get hurt but they have the sense not to dwell on the negative things that happen to them or around them. This is one of the strengths of the Archer. They learn to shun out the negative people and things in their lives and charge it to experience so, although they are seen as careless when they’re young, they mature to be strong and wise individuals. They are good at learning from experiences and they only use it to make their next actions better. Now, whether they forgive you or not depends on the level of the damage you made.

Telling them their dress looks awful probably won’t affect them too much. She’ll ponder on it for a couple hours but will also either immediately try to think of a way to remedy the situation or think of a nice come back to make the conversation lighter and funny instead of insulting. However, it could take a Sag relatively longer to get over things if you cheat on them. They may even make a scene upon finding out but they will learn to let go eventually and even sooner than you would expect but don’t think they’d readily take you back. When Sags let go, they let go completely. They’re not the most patient person when it comes to fixing broken things. They’d much rather look for something new to replace the last one. It’s just too messy and too much trouble for them. Although they are very forgiving and probably let the things you do slide most of the times, they are still human and there will come a time they’re going to say enough is enough.

How To Ask Forgiveness from a Sagittarius

How do someone ask for forgiveness from a Sagittarius? First off, if you’re asking forgiveness from a Sag, you must have done something REALLY bad. Sagittarius are fun loving people and are somewhat nonchalant that they let most things slide. This is not to say they do not care or worse, push overs. It’s just that these philosophical people understand at a young age that keeping a grudge only does more harm to them than anyone else. They do not hold on to the bad memories and events. They let these experiences hone them as a person and put it in good use. If there is one thing a Sagittarius hates more than anything, it is resentment and hate itself. So you might not have to worry about pissing them off because of trivial things.

Now, if you really must ask for a Sagittarius’ forgiveness, here are a few things to consider:
Make sure it’s from the bottom of your heart. Sounds cheesy, yes, but a heartfelt apology is always appreciated. Look them in the eye when you ask for their forgiveness. If you feel the need to explain yourself then do so. Sagittarius people are very good listeners and they will not only humor you but even put themselves in your shoes. They are somewhat righteous in a way that they ask themselves “how would I feel if I were in his/her position” all the time. Just say your piece and let it all out but be careful about the words that you use as well especially if the two of you disagreed about something.

Sagittarius can be very passionate about their beliefs so explain yourself in a way that would make him feel that you understand where he is coming from. If they feel you are sincere about saying sorry and making amends, they will forgive you from the bottom of their hearts too.

Generally, people under the Sagittarius zodiac are very forgiving. Extraordinarily forgiving, actually. And it’s not just about the small things. Sagittarius people wear their hearts on their sleeves and most of the time you can tell how they really feel about the situation. These party goers are also hopeless romantics. If you are lovers and had a disagreement, don’t let pride get in the way.Don’t be afraid of getting rejected or being asked to walk away. A Sagittarius prefers to know both sides of the story and they will not mind hearing you out. In fact, they prefer this because any other option makes them feel left in the dark.

If you have wronged a Sagittarius person, they may have forgiven you before you even ask for it. If it’s not a major issue, a Sagittarius will probably initiate the conversation too.They will try to sort things out and figure out where things went wrong and would prefer that the two of you work it out together. It is very hard to make a Sagittarius person angry but keep in mind not to take advantage of them. Don’t wait for that time when you have to run after them just to say those two words.

How Do Sagittarius Handle Exes?

A typical Sag is known to breeze through awkward and even stressful events. They are one of the most happy and fun loving people. They won’t sweat the small stuff because normally for them, it’s not worth it. Not that they don’t ever take things seriously. They do. But only when they feel it’s necessary. In relationships they don’t hold back. It may take a while before they commit but they go all out when trying to charm someone. It is said they can charm a stripes off a tiger. They can be very sweet and will know how to make you feel special and one of a kind. If you can keep a Sag then you’re one of the lucky ones. Not all relationships with the sweet Sag works out, though. How do Sagittarius handle exes? They don’t.

Your “relationship” after the relationship will depend on the reason you broke up. Most break ups with a Sagittarius is caused by their need for independence. They will want to spend time with you but they need their “me time” every once in a while. Not to be alone and think but to hang out with friends and meet new people. Once they feel fenced in they be uncomfortable and may start thinking twice about the position they are in. Normally, in this situations, it will be the Sag who wants out. They like to talk, socialize and flirt in a harmless way so if you don’t like that you need to tell them, otherwise it will all build up inside you and before you know it you will be the one who wants out. There is little to no room for jealousy with a Sag. This can be suffocating for them. Again, once they feel cornered they look for the easiest way out. If the other party initiates the breakup the only thing a Sag will ask is an explanation. That is if they really don’t have a clue. Sometimes, as intellectual as a Sag is, he/she can be dense. They may not know his words are harsh. For the Sag, the things that comes out of their mouths are just opinions or facts. They may already be hurting you and they still don’t know it. If they understand the reason why you want to end up things then they can rest.

If you part with a Sagittarius in good terms there will be no problem staying friends with them. But most of the times, ending a relationship with a Sag means it’s really over. Don’t expect to hear from them or even see them. They will move on with their lives and choose to leave all the negative things behind. If your breakup is bad the Sag will just try to go forward so don’t expect to see them distraught or depressed. They will mostly party the bad experience away. In case you run across them they may acknowledge you as an acquaintance and nothing else. It may seem harsh but that is kind of the way for them to cope with it.

The Sagittarius (21 November – 21 December)

Being a Sag myself, I of course chose to begin with my zodiac sign. Like most people, I do not place too much emphasis on horoscope readings and compatibility of zodiac signs mainly to save face. It is generally believed that astrology is a load of crack pot aimed at the more gullible members of society and those who still believe that Santa exists after age fifteen. But like everybody else, I am secretly fascinated by the spot on descriptions of personalities that fall under the twelve zodiac signs. So I may not agree with the predictions, but some traits the astrologers came up with are so eerily accurate that I can’t help but wonder how they deduced those traits just by studying the heavens and their relation to a person’s month of birth.

Some people confuse astrology with astronomy. Astronomy is the science that studies celestial phenomena physically. All objects in the sky are studied in terms of their constitution, position, history, etc. Astronomy, of course, is a science and no one disputes its validity. Astrology goes a step beyond astronomy by making correlations of celestial phenomena with events on earth, and these correlations are not of a nature that can be easily explained by traditional scientific concepts.

Without further ado, the Sagittarius:

The Sagittarius typecast is that they are often extroverted and crazy party goers. They like to have fun above everything else and are not very big on commitment. Not all Sagittarius are the same, though. Some Sags can be the opposite of what they are known for so, naturally, they can also be introverted and shy. That can make things a bit more complicated if you want a shot with a specific Sag and are trying to figure out how to act around them by consulting the stars. If people can only be defined by their zodiacs the world would be a better place. Heh. Of course we can always try to do something about it. The easiest explanation is the day or week the person is born. So let’s look at each of those.

A bit of info first, Sagittarius people are those born from November 22 to December 21. There is the thing called a cusp, though. This is the first and last few days of the zodiac that they share with the other 2 zodiacs before and after them. So in this case, Scorpio (before Sag) and Capricorn (after Sag). People born anytime during November 19 to 24 are a Scorpio – Sagittarius cusp so they characteristics of both signs and those born on December 19 to 25 are Sagittarius – Capricorn cusp. Moving on:

The first week (November 19-24) is the week of Revolution. This is sort of the turn around time. It is when things are developing into something else. Again, people born on these dates share some Scorpio and some Sagittarius characteristics. The strengths or most outstanding characteristics of people born on these dates are their loyalty (so yes, Sagittarius people can commit too!), gutsy (their love for taking risks) and the way they are usually ecstatic and full of energy. These are the more quiet type of Sagittarius.

The second week pertains to the week of Independence. These are people born on November 25 – December 2. They are the more responsible type of Sagittarius. Honor is a big thing for them and they are the type that tries everything to prove themselves. They take care of themselves and do not depend on anyone to look after them and although Sagittarius are usually seen as selfish, they can be intuitive too and sensitive to others feelings. They are very much capable of taking care of their loved ones.

Week three is the week of the Originator. These are the talented and creative type of Sagittarius. They can come off as unusual but that is the ingenious that is in them. They posses a passion for arts and every beautiful things around them and can come up with great ideas no matter if it’s for work or just something they want to do for fun. This week is from December 3 to 10.

The week of the Titan is the fourth week so think big! The most common characteristics of people born on December 11 to 18 is their confident nature. They know confidence can make them get better results in things they do. They have ambitions and they try to reach for it. At the same time they try not to forget people that have helped them along they way. They also have a big heart and try to help other people who are trying to reach their own goals.

The last week which is also a cusp is the cusp of Prophecy. From December 19 to 25 (I happen to fall here 😉 ) These people can be quiet like the Scorpio – Sag cusp but they are more of observers and psychics. They are very intuitive and try to understand things but people find it hard to do the same to them. They are inscrutable and are somewhat mysterious.

The Weak Points Of A Sagittarius

The Centaur. The mighty Archer. Two symbols that represent the Sagittarius zodiac. Both signifies strength, power and wisdom. This zodiac is suitable for alpha males; people who are born leaders or posses high ranking positions. Socially, the Sagittarius carries him/herself well. They are what you call the life of the party.

People like to be around them. Clever and witty, they also normally excel in their chosen field or at least perform very well at the things they do. The level of their confidence takes them a long way. They have varied interests that takes them around the world. On the front, a Sagittarius seem to be perfect. The ideal person everyone is looking for. But there are a few weak points that one needs to know before they decide if they want to be with an Archer.

It’s not always going to be parties and good times. There will be a few bumps in the road before one can finally say you think you may love happily ever after and whether they are big or small depends on the person who’s dealing with it.

The Sag is a traveler. He/she is active and has varied interests. This is considered a good attribute but in the long run may be a problem. The SAGITTARIUS TEND TO BE RESTLESS. They like going from one place to another because their feet just itch to go out and explore. It’s unlikely for them to stay put at one place for a long time. They don’t like staying home much because Sagittarius get bored easily. If they live in the city they will constantly go out to meet people to have fun with. In the outskirts they may just decide to go back packing one day and see how far up the trail on the hill goes. A person with a Sagittarius should not expect to have him stay indoors for too long. Go on vacation maybe twice a year or make sure regular night outs are on the calendar to keep them entertained.

A CAREFREE ATTITUDE can be cute but the Sag tends to overdo it. That characteristic can easily turn to being IRRESPONSIBLE AND RECKLESS. A developed Sagittarius knows when to take things seriously but the inexperienced ones just don’t know when to stop. Good thing they are mutable so they can be steered to the right direction. One must make sure they’re up to guiding a these devil-may-care bunch if they want to get to their destination.

One of the biggest Sagittarius trait that may cause them problems is their FLIRTATIOUS NATURE. They are very aggressive (whether male or female) in bars and would approach the first person that would catch their attention and they won’t stop there. A Sag is a visual person and their eyes will roam around. They don’t have a problem dating 2 (or more) people at the same time and that can get messy.

THE SAG LACKS COMMITMENT. A person with the Sag should make sure things are clear and in black and white. They are highly intellectual people but relationships and commitments are not their forte. However, when they do commit it leads to a relationship full of loyalty, passion, love and affection.

High Qualities of a Sagittarius

People born under the Sagittarius zodiac are seen as happy-go-lucky, nonchalant and, a lot of times (although they usually don’t mean to be), callous. But for every one of these adjectives that people throw at the Archer, there is a positive trait that weighs ten times more that can make the seemingly negative traits fade. Here are some of them:

1) Independent. Being independent can mean a lot of things and the Archer takes it all. Whether financially, intellectually or emotionally, a Sagittarius prides himself to be independent. They are very good at handling their finances so they always have something to take out of their pockets in case of emergencies. It may not be easy for them to pick a career that bring them success because a Sag needs something that doesn’t restrict him to a certain type of conduct but they do their best no matter what is thrown their way and at the same time they don’t stop looking for that job that would give them the fulfillment they need. Emotionally, they are usually in control. No, they’re not cold and calculating. As a matter of fact, the Sag can be the most affectionate sign there is if they want to be or if they think you deserve that affection. They are emotionally stable and do not resort to drama to get what they want. Sags love having fun too much to give in to drama. They’d rather take their time to think of a way to solve things in a quiet way. They try to solve their own problems too and try not to drag everyone in it.

2) Optimistic. This is a part of their happy-go-lucky character as well as their intellectual part. Whereas a pessimistic person will see so many road blocks, the Sag can think of a hundred and one ways of how and why things can work out. Unlike others who just say, things are going to be okay, the Archer actually thinks of ways to get to the goal.

3) Confident. Not the overly confident type, the Sag just have enough confidence that lets them slide through the day with ease. No matter what obstacle they face, they are confident they can get through it with a bit of logical thinking. Their confidence is also part of their charisma and appeal. They don’t believe you have to be gorgeous (although of course that helps, A LOT) to gain attention. You just have to think you’re gorgeous and that’s how Sags are. It may sound conceited as you read this but probably the thing that doesn’t make them so overbearing is the fact that they know how to use all their good qualities together.

4) Generous. The Archer is generous in more ways than one. They will offer support to friends and loved ones whether it be monetary or a sound advice. They will share their roof if they need to not in exchange of anything but just because they hate to see anyone they care for in a pickle.

Common Sagittarius Personalities that Get Misinterpreted

The Rule Breaker. The Sagittarius likes taking chances and pushing boundaries. They like to know their limitations so they can find out how far they can go. If you look at it in their way, pushing boundaries just means perseverance. A Sag would go a long way to make sure they finish something they started. They are not afraid to try unusual procedures if it would bring good results. This often leads to them being misinterpreted as rule breakers. They would try anything out if it means it’s something new and most especially, out of the usual. For them, if it’s fun and brings new experiences then it can’t be that bad. It just depends on who’s looking at it.

The Heart Breaker. A Sagittarius loves being around people but most of all they like getting to know people. They would figure you out like a puzzle to know what tickles you pink. Sags are somewhat people pleasers in that regard. They are very accommodating and they would give you what you want and need without realizing they are leading you on. They are also hopeless romantics. Forever out there looking for “the one”, they aren’t afraid of getting hurt or taking chances because deep inside, they know that “someone” is out there waiting for them and they won’t miss an opportunity if it means they will finally meet. If they feel like the person they are dating is not the one, they will be honest and say so so they can move on to find their soul mate. For them, the truth should be said even if it hurts. On another note, Sags are huge flirts too. Sometimes they don’t realize it but they are. They are very playful and sociable and they would have a conversation with anyone who is up to it.

The Know-It-All. The philosophical nature of Sags can also lead to them being misinterpreted. Sagittarius people are inquisitive and forever looking for answers. They don’t stop when you give them a good-enough answer. It has to be the absolute truth. Although they are fun-loving people they can rant too like when they don’t understand why people do things a certain way, for example. This is mostly why they are pegged as a bunch of know-it-all. They will talk about things that they don’t understand and suggest something that, for them, makes more sense.

The Sagittarius people have strong personalities so they can come off as extreme. The best thing to do is look inside them and know what their intentions are. Most of the time, they think and act in ways they think will benefit not just them but the people around them too.

So there you have it, a little more insight into the Sagittarius people. All of these in one person is a great deal to top so don’t be too quick to judge the Sag.